There is no question that I am the unadventurous sibling. I’ve mentioned my sister? The one who is living in Jerusalem for the year, with her two daughters, ages 5 and 3? Yes, that one. Apparently many boarding school teachers spend their sabbaticals reading books in a hammock at their lake house. Not so my [...]
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Jerusalem
I still don’t quite have words to fully describe our experience in Jerusalem. I recommend Hilary’s reflections, and in lieu of any writing, offer some photographs. My sister Hilary and I and our families by the Dome of the Rock. We went to the Temple Mount twice, and both times I was moved by a [...]
Trusting myself
Before we went to Jerusalem, I had an exchange with my friend Aidan about how mothers universally doubt themselves. This is simply and inherently part of the terrain, she said, and I agree. But for days after our conversation I found myself thinking about those moments – rare, but important – where I have trusted [...]
February: I left a piece of myself there
Last week I read Amy at Never True Tales’ words on The Witching Years. She writes about the years that her children were young, with a combination of regret, loss, gratitude and wonder that I recognize intimately. It’s clearer here, on the other side. In the light. With kids who brush their own teeth and [...]
Off to Jerusalem
We are off today to visit my sister and her family in Jerusalem. It is Grace and Whit’s first trip out of the country, and an adventure for all of us. I plan to truly soak up our time there, which would already be holy simply because it’s my whole family together, but is made [...]
Small Christmas rituals
My commitment to simplifying this holiday is significant. And it has paid off: the Christmas cards are mailed, the gifts are all bought, though not all wrapped, the tree is up. Still, I adore Christmas and its traditions, and have some small annual rituals. There are a few things we do every year. Whit has [...]
Ordinary thanksgiving
Thanksgiving was full of experiences that carried the mantle of important, moments I could feel turning to memories even as I lived them. Most of all there was our Friday evening celebration of my in-laws’ 45th wedding anniversary and the 9th anniversary of my father-in-law’s successful heart transplant. My in-laws had their three sons and [...]
Thanksgiving 2011
Thanksgiving. I am thankful for so much that I sometimes feel gratitude like a swell in my chest, pressing on me from the inside out. And yet, there is still so much here I do not understand (Adrienne Rich). Loved ones circle around tables and take time to consider that which matters most, the world [...]
Fairy tales
If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. – Einstein I just adore this quote. Putting aside for a minute my essential belief that raw intelligence is innate, I agree with everything that Einstein means with this single beautiful sentence. Why? For lots of reasons. Fairy tales are where the archetypes [...]
Halloween 2011
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