Some changes

This September will mark seven years of blogging for me.  I love writing here.  To say it has had a substantial impact on the way I live my life is an understatement.  Blogging has introduced me to a community of writers I’d never imagined meeting, brought me back to the person who loves to write, who I’d lost for many years, and reminded me in a visceral way that my life is right here in front of me, and if I don’t pay attention I’ll miss it.

It’s time for a small change.  Starting next week I’m going to blog three times a week.  Mostly this is because I’m worried I’m repeating myself.  A couple of years ago I noted that Joni Mitchell’s Circle Game could easily be the theme song of my life.  “Captive on a carousel of time” might have been a more apt (though more trademarked) name for this blog.  I feel like the circles are getting smaller, and I am becoming boring.  I told Matt about this change, and he asked why, and I said “because I think I’m repeating myself.”  Without hesitation, he said, “Yes, that’s probably true.”  Oh-kay.  There you have it.

Writing here has certainly made clear the central leitmotifs of my life: mourning the passage of time, the mysterious nature of memory, my dogged but imperfect attempts to be here now, and the reality that life is flawed and messy, grand and golden, and that it is impossible (for me) to have light without dark.

It is inexpressibly valuable to have clarity about what those themes are.  I understand now, and I did not before, the ways that these spots around which my soul pivots have defined my comings and goings and my feeling and thinking.

But I don’t want to just say the same thing over and over again.  I can’t possibly explain how much it means to me that anyone at all is reading my words; honestly, that is a gift beyond measure.  Thank you.  I know it’s awfully meta to blog about blogging.  I won’t do it again, but I just wanted to explain the change in cadence here that will start next week.

And to say thank you.


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3 Comments

  1. admin
    Posted May 24, 2013 at 11:40 am | Permalink

    Thank you – I hope that I find SOMETHING out! 🙂

  2. admin
    Posted May 24, 2013 at 11:40 am | Permalink

    Thank you so much for saying this. I really appreciate it. xox

  3. Posted May 30, 2013 at 2:22 pm | Permalink

    Lindsey- Selfishly of course my first reaction was oh no, what will I read first thing in the morning, hiding in my office with my cup of coffee? Once I got past myself, I thought, how brave of her, to shake things up and realize that maybe change is a good thing. I don’t think you’re going anywhere, and hopefully this will give you time and space to climb up to the next great thing. Your words are a necessary thing in this world, please know that. Thank you for all you’ve given us, and I look forward to much more. xoxoxoxox

    admin Reply:

    Thank you for such extremely kind words. Honestly; I really appreciate them. xoxo